People Judge You For These 6 Irrelevant Things
People Judge You For These 6 Irrelevant Things, Doubt yourself and you doubt everything you see. Judge yourself and you see judges everywhere. But if you listen to the sound of your own voice, you can rise above doubt and judgment. And you can see forever.
Like the famous folktale, “The foolish quack,” we put our little knowledge into practice. We use environmental cues without any reference to the situation or person, and we start making judgments. When we judge we either project our own insecurities over others or we resent someone so much that we start judging them.
When we do not have enough knowledge, we speculate and in that speculation, our perceptions are converted into judgments. We all judge one way or the other but sometimes we make fool of ourselves by judging others for these mundane attributes.
7 trivial reasons people judge you for
- Your choices in relationships
When we are in love, we see in black and white, that’s why it is said love makes us go blind. We don’t see what the other person looks like and how much money they amass, we just see how their eyes shine when they see you.
While you might be twirling in love, the world is judging you. The world is seeing it in all the colors, they are not blinded by love but they might blind themselves with false rumors and speculation. Hence, judging you for your choices in a relationship.
- Your choices in career
People have a very narrow spectrum, they can’t see sometimes what stars you seek at night. A vlogger told in her interview that her father has no idea what she does for the living, he doesn’t even think her career is sustainable.
Times are changing now but people are quite the same. We judge anyone who indulges himself in a small job, people don’t see that he might be doing it to make ends meet.
- Your friends’ circle
You hang out with people you feel easy with, you feel secure with them, more importantly, you go out with them because they don’t judge you. But the world doesn’t see it that way. People judge you for your choices of friends.
People might forget their own mistakes but they don’t forget others’ mistakes. They might be envious of your friends but they will judge you, for who you hang out with.
- Your political opinions
We might live under the same roof but that doesn’t imply we will all have the same ideologies. Our political affiliations vary from person to person, our opinions our the product of our own intellect. But people judge you for your political affiliations.
If you support a group, they will start relating your attributes with them, which is mostly just a random speculation.
- Your religious affiliations
We live in the world where we are intolerant about each other’s cast, color or creed. Whether it’s anti-Holocaust beliefs or Islamophobic beliefs, we judge an entire race over the actions of few.
If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
- Your long forgotten past
We often forget that
Every saint has a past. Every sinner has a future.
Human beings are made to make errors, so we learn from our mistakes and move on. People while judging not see you that way, they will see you as a failure and will bring you down if you try to shrug off your past. They will judge you for your past mistakes and blunders no matter what.